Women Revealed The Subtle (And Not-So-Subtle) First Date “Red Flags” That Other Women Should Know

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“If he’s pushy to pick you up at your house for a date or come over to your house for any reason before getting to know you. It’s a red flag because by being in your house, he’s broken a boundary of personal space, and for whatever reason, he thinks this is an invitation for something more. This recently happened to me.”

“This man was ADAMANT about ‘watching a movie’ after dinner. Against my better judgment, I agreed. Upon walking into the house, he tried to kiss me. I pushed him away and thought that would be the end of that. Then, the movie started, and he scooted closer to me on the couch and rubbed my back. It was absolutely cringe, and I wanted to crawl out of my skin. I kicked him out and never spoke to him again. I felt tricked and violated. He even has two daughters. I hope they never are in a situation like the one their gross dad put me in. Never again will I let someone know where I live until I’m extremely comfortable with him. Never.”

—Anonymous, 46, Nebraska