Women Are Calling Out The Ways “Girl Code” Is Actually Outdated, Problematic, Or Just Wrong

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“That I’m a ‘pick me’ if I don’t support your irrational delusions about a guy.”

—tobeornottobe-222

“I’m in one of those ‘Are we dating the same guy?’ groups on social media (mostly for the drama, to see if anyone I know shows up. Only one so far was my cousin! LOL), but ladies will post bland ass shit like, ‘He stopped texting me randomly at 8 p.m., then texted this morning that he fell asleep, does this seem fishy?’ And at least half the comments are like, ‘Girl, he’s cheating.’ 

One person was like, ‘This dude asked me out on a date at 11 p.m. on a Sunday night! No sir, blocked!’ People were piling in on it, and I was like, ‘Damn, maybe he works overnight, and that’s normal for him!’ I work overnight and will frequently text people at midnight, then be like, ‘Oh shit! They are probably sleeping!'”

—mandicapped