This Woman’s Boyfriend Banned Night Showers Because Their Baby Cries When She’s Away

And Holiday_Tree_2130 shared how they also struggled to find time to shower with two new babies, but their partner went out of his way to ensure she had “self-care” moments…

“My partner and I have 2 babies together. Both babies have only wanted me. He has always been adamant that, at the very least, I should get a hot shower every night and have some time to myself. It has been the same for both babies, every night I would hand them to him, they would wake up and SCREAM until they were back on me. If I had waited to shower until they were in bed, I would be missing out on sleep, as I do all night wake-ups. I would say ‘I’ll go as fast as I can’ and his response has always been ‘Take your time, you need this for you. I’ve got this, [baby] is safe. Enjoy your shower.’ I walk into the bathroom, and he has lit candles for me and turned out the lights so that I can relax somewhat. Baby has screamed the entire time, and he walks around the house, cuddling and talking to them the entire time, trying to calm them. He should be parenting and supporting you, not making you feel like a single parent in a relationship.”