“You went too code red too quickly,” another added. “And you kicked your sister out too… Yes, he was rude. But for your sister’s sake, you could have been more diplomatic about it and given him a little more rope.”
“You don’t need to accept rudeness in your face, but you didn’t need to escalate it immediately by kicking them out.
You could throw his rudeness back in his face with something like: ‘Well, you could always head to your family if you’re not happy here, or try to act like a grown-up with us here. Your choice.’
If he shapes up, it’s a learning moment for adult Steve. If he continued being a jerk, then you could have escalated it and kicked him out.
This way, it also allows your sis to see Steve in action. To see if he can improve when confronted with his own rudeness, or if he is 100% full-time all the time, asshole.”
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