“I wish she knew how lucky she is to have a husband that wants her like this. She has the option to get implants if it really bothers her. It’s a decision moms make for their personal happiness. Or she can start with a chest workout to help bring up the tissue a bit,” said u/ImprovementSilver265.
“Implants are a great option, but he cannot suggest this! If he does, she will never believe he is satisfied with what she has. All he can do is be supportive if she suggests implants.
I believe in plastic surgery for the right reasons. After I gave birth, I lost a lot of weight and had a tummy tuck. Between the C-section and rapid weight loss, my stomach was not going to go back on its own. My SIL did this and also had a breast lift.
I hope she considers this. She brought two lives into the world. She deserves a little surgical help if it will make her feel better,” added u/SincerelyCynical.
u/TiffyQ said, “This CAN make a difference if she’s in the right place. I am in a similar situation as your wife, just many more years post. Maybe saying that you wish she could see herself through your eyes or your kids’ eyes, even, may be helpful? You can ask her if there’s anything you could do to support her well-being overall: Is there an old interest she had that got lost with motherhood that you could take the time to help her revisit? Things that remind her who she is? She may just need to feel like herself again, but you can’t give that to her; you can, however, help remove barriers TO it. Good luck to you both 💜.”
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