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“I spent about two years in my late thirties very deliberately only dating and sleeping with married women in ethically open relationships. And while it’s been a few years since the last time, I will still occasionally do so.”
After getting…
17 Men Shared The Dating Red Flags That Instantly Kill Their Interest
January 2, 2026
Going on dates to find your perfect match requires a lot of energy. So when a “red flag” of a behavior appears, it makes sense why someone may want to stop seeing this person, so they don’t waste any more time. So when we asked the BuzzFeed Community…
I'm A Female Massage Therapist, And I Refuse To Work With Men Anymore. Here's Why.
December 24, 2025
I’ve been practicing massage therapy for almost 30 years.
I’m aware, likely more than most, how important touch is.
Social affective touch: the kind massage therapists offer ― the kind we get from a friendly hug or a compassionate hand on our shoulder ― has been…
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I’m not attracted to men, but I do have a specific attraction to penises, which I know sounds oddly specific. I’m attracted to women, I date women, and I’d only ever want a romantic relationship with a woman. Still, I experimented once and realized I actually…
