It’s easy for married couples to become two ships passing in the night, each so preoccupied by their own personal to-do lists, worries, and distractions that they rarely have a moment of true connection. But when you fail to take each other’s “emotional pulse on a near-daily basis,” it has a way of widening the distance between you, said Los Angeles-based couples therapist David…
“A lot of times, what I will have clients do is be curious about something from their childhood they missed out on because they were busy over-functioning,” Harris explained.
For example, if you wished that you could go to a swimming pool with your friends but always had…





