People Are Recalling The “Red Flags” That Signaled Their Partner Actually Didn’t Love Them

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“When you take a backseat to everything else in their life. My last ex wouldn’t usually invite me to things with his friends, always seemed to have something on weekends, texting habits were infrequent and sporadic, and I felt like the relationship ran on his time. When I first noticed this and brought it up, he broke up with me, maybe a month or two later. So yeah, I don’t think he genuinely liked me.”

“My current partner actively has had me meet his close friends, hangs out with me on both weekdays/weekends, and wants to see me. I remember having a bit of insecurity and struggling with it, so I told him he didn’t have to invite me, but he made it clear he wanted me there. It goes to show my current partner actually enjoys my presence and cares about me. Actions speak louder than words. No matter what kind of nice things they say, if their actions don’t match up to it, they don’t really mean it.”

—Spiritual_Gur_1944