9. “I attended but thankfully didn’t join in the end. I had just moved to Korea at 18 years old and didn’t really know anyone. I was just starting to learn Korean (conversational but still low-level) and didn’t really have many friends yet. Someone invited me to go to church with them, and they were really nice, and I wanted to meet people. I had a lot of fun at this church. The…

Your proposal is one of the only secrets you should keep from your partner. And even then, it might be better to let them know you plan to ask soon. Still, if you want it to be a full-blown surprise, the first thing you’ve got to figure out is their engagement ring size. Reddit user @Best_Expression_1860 recently asked for ways to get a…