I definitely have quite the opening line for you — clears throat. Okay…let’s get into the intimate and explicit details about your first climactic sexual experience (whoa!!)…
But first, I have to say, I’m utterly flabbergasted (and saddened) that 5–10% of women have never experienced an orgasm. And I mean, never! Ladies, your time is coming — but still, in the meantime, I’m shook. It’s completely jarring to see that stat just casually floating around on the internet.
Because the other 90–95% of women can attest, orgasms are pretty cool. (Yikes.) So let’s dive in, swap stories, and celebrate them! No two are alike, and since we hardly ever talk about this stuff, hearing other people’s experiences and perspectives can be so important.
So…think back to your very first orgasm. It might have been last year, or fifty years ago. With a partner, or by yourself. Whatever the moment, see it clearly in your mind’s eye.
Take me back: How old were you? Who was it with? Or were you alone? How would you describe it? What emotions came up when it happened? And did you even know at the time that it was an orgasm?
Tell us about it! And no, not just women. Everyone! Drop it in the comments if you’re feeling bold — or if you’re a little shy, this super-easy anonymous form has got your back: