Recently, TikTok user @jessicadelgado__ asked people to share how they learned they were being cheated on, leading more than 60,000 people to share their stories. Here are 50 shocking, heartbreaking, and infuriating things people said.
1.
“She made a tiktok of them and it popped up on my FYP. TikTok really said for you babe!”
2.
“His boyfriend told me”
3.
“some random instagram account followed me and their bio was ‘bailey, he is cheating on you'”
4.
“He brought her to our house and my toddler snitched, and my toddler even took a photo on his tablet 😭😭😭 now he resents our kid”
5.
“they posted the same tablecloth on their stories 💀”
6.
“His dad forced him to facetime me and tell me in front of him to make sure he wouldn’t lie 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳”
7.
“Erm my little sisters classmate asked her if I was still dating him and when she said yes he hit her with ‘that’s weird bc he’s dating my cousin’ 💀”
8.
“he posted her sitting on his lap on his story and blocked me from seeing it but forgot to block my best friend from seeing it 💀”
9.
“She posted their pregnancy announcement.”
10.
“used his laptop THAT I BOUGHT HIM for my college and saw tons of OF emails and turns out he was spending all his money on personal vids from sophie rain and bhad babie 😭 WE WERE ENGAGED”
11.
“I was watching the Knicks game and the camera panned on him lol”
12.
“He told me he was sick so I went to drop off comfort food. The girl opened the door.”
13.
“His homie told me ♥️”
14.
“His side pieces boyfriend hit me with the ‘hey girly’ text LMAOOOO her man snitched”
15.
“his mom called me!! s/o to you ms lewis you’re a real one sorry I broke your front door 🫶🫶🫶”
16.
“His son called me on his phone and asked why i made his mommy cry. my ex told me they both died in a car crash . 😀”
17.
“I asked to look at his phone and then he proceeded to snap his phone right in half over his knee so that I couldn’t look through it 😌 that comfirmed it right there”
18.
“girly pop literally commented on his ig post ‘how handsome, it doesn’t even look like you’re cheating on your gf’ 🙈”
19.
“One guy messaged me…then another…then another- come to find out I was one of TWENTY SIX”
20.
“He charged tinder gold to my credit card 🤡”
21.
“Their anniversary is a week before I broke up with him”
22.
“His little sister gave me his Apple Watch & told me his password (I didn’t even know it) bc it kept going off & I found everything 🥲 ( she was 6 at the time 😭 ) shoutout to her 🙏”
23.
“He left his phone at her house. SHE went thru HIS phone, saw our messages and called ME !! She knew his password but i didnt”
24.
“Found an email with her credit card number on it from the airport. They went to TX together rented a mustang. She was paying our phone bill too?!? 😂😅”
25.
“I walked in on them and crashed out full Maddy euphoria banging on the door”
26.
“He got a summons to child support court for a 1 month old baby…. we had been married for a year, together for 6… the mother of said child?? his ‘cousin’ ironically, hes from KY. lmao”
27.
“Went on vacation and my friend found him on Grindr 🥲”
28.
“I went through his archive Facebook messages and he was cheating on me with his friends MOM”
29.
“He was cheating with my best friend, who would brag to her ex bf about it. her ex called me and told me. then i dated her ex. he was lovely! hi dean”
30.
“i guessed the right girl in his following and dmed her”
31.
“His recent emojis… sounds insane but I was right”
32.
“We used locket and he sent a pic with sunglasses on and she was in the reflection taking the picture”
33.
“WHILE ON FaceTime with him, I received a ‘hey girl I know you don’t know me but’ dm from the girl, her and I both dumped him and are friends to this day 🫶”
34.
“He left his phone in the car while he was out getting gas. I locked all the doors and went thru his phone while he watched thru the window lol”
35.
“Girls left a hand written letter on my car under the wiper with all the evidence I needed printed out. To this day I don’t know who the girls were but they did so right by me. Thank you girls 🫶”
36.
“He randomly changed his passcode one day so I waited til he fell asleep & shined my phone flashlight angling the side of the screen and could see his fingerprints & got the code on the 1st try :)”
37.
“Married 16 years and got an anonymous letter in the mail.”
38.
“We were playing Roblox and his side piece joined and said ‘hi baby’ the discord call got REALLLL quiet”
39.
“I went thru his notes app and there was a list of girls he slept with chronologically WITH A RATING out of 10 next to it. There was my name with about 8 girls after me 🤩”
40.
“I found an extremely long hair on his bed. at the time I had a super short pixie cut. 😭”
41.
“‘Jennifer from Nissan’ was texting him while we were asleep. He was dead asleep. I took his phone and saw everything.”
42.
“I had a gut feeling and he called me crazy so I said ‘screenshots don’t lie’ and he broke down crying and apologizing”
43.
“A detective left me a voicemail after Chris Hansen interviewed my husband 🙃”
44.
“The husband of the woman he cheated on me with pulled up in front of my house with a jansport bookbag FULL of proof. Told me I was too pretty to be getting played.”
45.
“Had a weird feeling. Drove by his house at night and my best friend’s car was outside lol”
46.
“He told me to help him find a gift for his sister whose birthday was in ‘FEB.’ Out of curiosity, I researched his family online. To find out her birthday is in MAY :))”
47.
“After swearing on his DEAD father that he wasn’t cheating, the girl posted a picture of a man kissing her and the man’s whole fit was everything my family got him for Christmas 💀”
48.
“he went to visit ‘his friends’ out of town for the weekend and never came back home. i checked bank statements, found a charge from a wedding chapel in reno nevada that weekend 😂”
49.
“She dmd me on instagram bragging. Posted it on my Instagram story and tagged her sorority 😊”
50.
Finally, “Girl, tumblr 😂 my FRIEND who my ex cheated on me with wrote a tumblr post where she only capitalized certain letters and it was my exes name”
I’m so sorry to everyone who experienced a partner’s infidelity. I know some of these were shared humorously, but it truly sucks, and you didn’t deserve that. If you ever caught someone cheating, share your story in the comments or in this Google form if you prefer to be anonymous.
