4.
“Please let me know if what I’m doing is actually working for you. If not, help me understand what does.”
5.
“When she’s got suggestions… It’s so much hotter when she’s actively pursuing her own pleasure, rather than just along for the ride while I finish.”
6.
“Being open to suggestions. Don’t let ego get in the way because ‘you know what you’re doing.’ No one knows what their body wants or likes more than themselves.”
7.
“I never realized how important rhythm was for the woman to have too… until I had sex with a woman who didn’t have any.”
11.
“A genuine desire to win. Casual sex is great, but have y’all tried ranked competitive sex? Oh boy, that’s next level.”
12.
“I love looking into their eyes while they are inside me and when they can tell I want to kiss them. Seeing the passion and pleasure in their eyes makes it sooooo much better.”
18.
“A deep receptivity to pleasure and a desire to be worshipped from every angle.”
21.
“I love when guys know how to take control. Something about just not having to use my brain is really nice.”
27.
And finally, “All the things that happen after the deed, like intimacy and pillow talk.”
What underrated bedroom advice (ahem) would you add to the list? Share your thoughts in the comments or in the anonymous form below!
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