Women Who’ve Rejected Marriage Proposals Are Sharing Exactly Why They Said No

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“I smiled, held his hand, and said no. It was high school, he was a year above me, and we were on a school group spring break. I explained that we were way too young to even consider it. He pressed and tried to give me the ring as a promise ring, and I still shook my head and told him to get a refund for the ring and use it towards food (his family wasn’t doing well).”

“The second one I struggled with. He did it privately in a hotel room, and I felt nothing. I realized right there that I cared about him, but wasn’t in love. He tried for two weeks, and I politely told him I wasn’t ready, but he didn’t seem to want that. (Now I know he was afraid of me leaving him, so he was trying to tie me down.)

The third person was nice, but I simply reminded him I wasn’t interested in marriage. We dated for another year before we split.”

—VivianKink