And since we’ve all seen so many cheating stories that prove how low the bar can be for men, lots of women were surprised to see just how many men came through with really well-thought-out responses.
So, here are some of the best ones:
“The same way I deal with passing by Krispy Kreme when the HOT sign is on: KEEP GOING. Because I’ve got ‘ALL YOU CAN EAT’ hot donuts at home.”
“It’s the same thing as owning a really beautiful home, or a really amazing truck….you see other trucks that are equally cool, but they’re not a ‘threat’ to your love for your home or truck. Because it’s like that’s sick, but ‘I have one of those too,’ and it’s YOURS too, so there’s some pride and favoritism involved as well. You should take pride in your girl fr. Just like I take pride in my truck 😂. I love that goddamn truck, it’s perfect FOR ME.”
“I go, ‘Oh, she’s attractive.’ Then I get on with my life. I’m married, not blind.”
“In 39 years, I haven’t seen anyone in the wild as hot as my wife. If I happen to see one on TV, I’ll say to her, ‘She’s almost as hot as you.'”
“Who needs a candle when I come home to the sun.”
“That’s easy. There are a lot [of] attractive women. BUT A combination of attractive, sensual, clever, independent, humble, and positive. That would be difficult.”
“I honor God, and I honor and respect my wife. Besides, who needs a snack when I get to come home every day to this meal?”
“We don’t deal with other ‘attractive women’. In fact, we don’t even see other women in the room. The coolest underrated superpower when you find your person. 🤌🏾🤭😉”
“Me: ‘Oh, she’s hot!’ *shows wife* Her: ‘Damn, she is hot…’ Believe it or not, I am emotionally intelligent enough to find women attractive and still obsess over my wife.”
“It’s perfectly OK to recognize that other women are attractive; chances are, they put work into it just as men care about their appearance. Appreciating that in someone doesn’t have to be sexual, it can be simple respect. It has nothing to do with your marriage or your love for your spouse.”
“When you get married, you don’t go blind. Commitment is a choice. There are always attractive people out there, but I find the caliber of the woman I married couldn’t be matched, and that’s the reason I chose her as my wife.”
“In Austria, we have a saying: you can read the menu, but you eat at home. I sometimes say ‘that’s an attractive woman’ to my partner, and she is agreeing. But I also say ‘that’s an attractive man,’ and if she says it, it’s ok as well.”
“My wife of 30 years was my dream girl the first time I saw her. Confident, tough, drop-dead GORGEOUS. She was walking across our production floor at work, with her coveralls open, sleeves tied around her waist. Gawd, I was lost. From that day to this, she’s been the only girl I think about…”
“This is why self-love is key. Why would I ever marry someone I don’t want to be around, whose opinions I don’t value? Just because I don’t want to be alone. Not me, Ms. Joy. I’ll be alone and comfortable with it than have my time wasted and waste anyone else’s time.”
“There is nothing wrong with attraction. You simply don’t disrespect yourself or your partner.”
“Women are gonna be attractive, that’s normal. Realizing you got more than just attraction at home is the flex, though.”
“When I was married, it was always about being committed to my wife; no one else had a place.”
“An attractive woman may brighten a moment, but my wife brightens my life.”
“I can acknowledge that other women are attractive, but I don’t entertain the idea or stare. My eyes and my heart [are] for my wife and my wife only.”
“It’s kinda like walking by a restaurant, after you’re already full. 🤷♂️ Like, oh, cool, a restaurant! I’m not hungry, though.”
Clearly, lots of women approve of these wholesome men. Did it resonate with you? Let us know why or why not in the comments!