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“It was the night before I was going to pick up my wedding dress. This was seven months before we were supposed to get married. My fiancé and I were out of town for a wedding. Looking back, things were off, but I didn’t know it at the time. We had been together for almost three years when this happened. At this reception, he was visibly drunk, and at one point, he collapsed at the bar, so drunk he could barely walk. We assisted him to the car, and he lay down on the floor in the backseat. I drove home while he was sleeping/crying. When we got home, he wouldn’t get out of the car, so I took him a pillow and blanket, thinking he would sober up at some point and come into the house.”
“Flash forward an hour. I wake up to him, screaming and crying in the house, saying I left him. He had proceeded to poop his pants, piss, and puke all over himself. I helped him get into the bathroom and take his clothes off, down to his underwear. Just before we got to the underwear, something told me to look at his phone.
In his texts, there was a private message between a married woman and him about how he loves her and had been meeting up. I then confronted him about it. He immediately sobered up. Then proceeded to tell me it was my fault that he was cheating on me and wasn’t happy for a long time while dry heaving over the bathtub. After listening to a little of his explanation, I took my ring off, set it on the counter, and told him we needed to break up. I took our dog and left. I called his mom to tell her what happened, and she had some excuse protecting her son, and it was very clear she was not in support of me at all. I never saw him in person again, but the thought of him gagging over the bathtub with a visible lump of poop loaded into his underwear will forever be ingrained in my mind. In the aftermath, I found out he wasn’t as good a person as he made himself out to be. Dodged a major bullet.”
—Anonymous, 34, Illinois
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