Over the years, women have shared the biggest red flags they’ve learned after being with certain types of men…and it is a reality that is always appreciated and taken seriously. Now, one woman on TikTok is going viral for sharing what she believes to be the biggest red flag:
TikToker @ssarahchau said, “After my most recent dating experience, I’ve learned and can confirm that the biggest red flag and the worst quality a man can have that us ladies need to be cautious of is: ‘Is he lustful?’ Is he lustful? And does he pretend like he’s not lustful?”
“Because let me tell you, there is something so dangerous about a man who is clearly lustful that pretends like he’s a saint. He lacks control, he lacks discipline, he lacks the ability to feel satisfied from one source. Therefore, he’s constantly seeking external validation to validate and satisfy his ego, and on top of this, he’s lying to you about it.”
“So, therefore, it means that he’s not proud of who he is when he looks at himself in the mirror. Being with a man like this will slowly, if not immediately, destroy your self-worth. So if you have the slightest inkling that the man you’re talking to could be lustful, I would recommend you turn your ass 180 degrees, and walk away because that relationship will not end well,” she concluded in her TikTok that has been viewed well over two million times.
Right away, women agreed that the worst type are the ones who pretend they aren’t lustful but 100% are:
And one clue into seeing if a guy is lustful is to check who they are following on social media:
Make it a prerequisite before dating:
And if the majority are women, DROP HIM:
People say these type of men clearly lack discipline:
They are definitely insecure:
They lack accountability:
And might even have an addiction:
Commenters said you’ll never be enough for lustful men because they are always seeking:
And the most frightening part is that sometimes they can hide it very well:
A lot of women have no idea:
And some even marry them not knowing a thing:
So, pay attention to his friends and behaviors:
Because your heart and health are priority…
And so is your mental health:
In addition, women also agree you need to figure out how much empathy he has:
Because, sadly, men can lack A LOT:
So, just lock this info in the back of your mind for when you need it:
And now we want to know what you think are the biggest red flags that people need to be aware of when dating men? Let us know your thoughts in the anonymous comments form below, and we may share more in a follow-up post!