Finally, user Forsaken_Pick3201 gave some practical advice and a compromise. “Sit down, do a group text, do a family page and lay it out. Dad left me the funds because he wanted me to have a stable life. Not to fund a party with it. He left it to me, because I did the emotional, mental, and physical for him. I am doing the right thing. I’m honoring my father. I’m honoring his memory. I’m honoring what he wanted. I am not giving my sister funds for a day party. She can party within her own budget, not mine, not what dad gave me. GAVE ME! not her, not mom, not you.”
“Of course, that being said. How much are all of you wanting to contribute? Sis can set up a place to give her donations, or she can provide you with her information to help fund her wedding. Now, if she asked for a MUCH smaller amount that would be different. Like $1,000 or something, but $30,000 NO WAY! Not for a party. One night and it is all gone.”
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