This Person Is Mad Because They Think Their Colleague Isn’t Putting Enough Effort In Their Friendship

We had strong reactions to the expectations of the OP, especially when they outlined that their colleague was pretty clear about their boundaries. “I’ve confronted her multiple times and all she said was that I was thinking too much and that she prefers low-maintenance friendships. Mind you, she did mention over teams that I was her work BFF, or at least a friend, but now it feels like that was all lies.”