Therapists Revealed Juicy Sex Secrets That Would Make Even Your Most Adventurous Friend Blush

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“A satisfying relationship inside the bedroom starts outside the bedroom. I used to intern with therapists, and they’d always stress the importance of communication. One of the therapists loved The 5 Love Languages (which I believe started as a book), but she’d tell them to take a free quiz online to figure out their ‘love language.’ So many patients throughout the years would say how learning their ‘love language’ helped save their relationships. I’ve personally found it incredibly beneficial as well. If nothing else, it opens the door for communication with your S.O. on what’s important and meaningful to you, which can lead to a much more satisfying sexual relationship.”

—u/Schwannomaaa

“When I first met my wife, she would talk about this, and I thought it was silly. Then, I started to read the details, and it clicked that this was how she was opening the door to communication. We both were previously divorced from horrible first marriages.

That trust worked its way into the bedroom — it’s the best sex we have ever had, and we are in our forties. So, as silly as these 5 Love Languages sound, they really work as a springboard to how you might subconsciously express or want to be loved. The idea is so simple, yet the effects are pretty profound. I cannot sing the praises of The 5 Love Languages enough!”

—u/nawtykitty