You May Be In A 'Tolyamorous’ Relationship Without Ever Having Discussed It
September 29, 2025
There are many reasons people might find themselves in a tolyamorous dynamic — even if it’s not their preferred relationship structure.
For one, some cultures recognize that lifelong monogamy isn’t realistic and believe extramarital sex is likely to occur, “but it needs to be kept discreet in order for people to save face, and maintain the public appearance of monogamy,” Thouin said…