9.
“Proper hygiene.”
—LovelySway
“That one surprised me when i found out! For me, proper hygiene was a given regardless of being in a relationship. But, my now fiancée was impressed by what I consider to be a normal routine. I was like…
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2.
“Men are infantilized about child care. I’ve always been the primary contact for my kid’s school because I have a more flexible job. I never got a single call, but they called my wife every singe time. I know everything about my kid’s…
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“Making jokes and theorizing about what our future kids might look like is a big no-no I’ve experienced on multiple first dates. Even if I earnestly believe you’re joking, it’s a major negative vibe shift, and the date probably isn’t…
13.
“I spent about two years in my late thirties very deliberately only dating and sleeping with married women in ethically open relationships. And while it’s been a few years since the last time, I will still occasionally do so.”
After getting…
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