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People Who Have Been Single Basically Their Entire Lives Are Sharing Why


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“I would rather be single than unhappy with a man. LOVE is great, but I don’t want it with a man. I am straight, which is not by choice, but I do wonder if I would be better off being asexual or lesbian. I cannot change being attracted to men; however, I can consciously decide not to date them.”

“Men LOVE differently to women, and I do not like it. I am stubborn and do not want to be subservient or dominated. I find men exhausting, tiring, lazy in romantic relationships, boring, taking up way too much space, and overall imposing, intrusive, and energy-draining. I love my own space and company, and I do love LOVE and want LOVE, but it won’t happen on their terms. 

Healthy men look to be of service. Toxic men are seeking servants. It is rare and almost impossible to meet a healthy man that I am sexually and physically attracted to.”

—greengem536

Fabiana Buontempo

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