People Are Sharing The Warning Signs That Scream, “I’m A Horrible Spouse!”

5.

“Always playing devil’s advocate/extending grace to others in situations where your spouse is clearly being treated wrongly.”

“A friend of the family ended up divorced, and it was one of the tells I always saw that things weren’t as happy as they tried to make it seem. Whenever someone was rude to the wife, the husband would make excuses and rationalize that she must’ve done something to provoke that behavior. 

The same applied when there were disagreements about things. The husband would dogpile on the wife and almost take glee in seeing them become increasingly uncomfortable, even when we’re discussing inconsequential stuff like whether or not we thought a movie was good. That shit is toxic.”

–Blanche_Deverheauxxx