People Are Sharing The Most Eye-Opening Sex Lessons They Learned The Hard Way

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“That not being in the mood doesn’t mean that you’re not into your partner. It’s just that you’re not in the right headspace.”

—DemonScourge1003

“Similarly, I wish more men were taught that it’s 1000% okay for them to not stay hard the entire time and if they aren’t staying hard, it’s likely because they are getting in their head about something.

I wish more women were taught to not take offence and use these opportunities to be gentle and make it a safe space for their partner to open up. It might not always end in them being able to get their hard-on back. But, you can have the most intimate experience by just holding space and making sure they know it’s not unmanly to have feelings outside of anger and joy. It’s actually super brave and hot when a dude can talk through what’s going on in their head.

I think feminine energy is the ability to make a male feel emotionally safe, and masculine energy is to make a women feel physical safe at all times.”

—ravensarecoolaf54