Men Who Were Cheated On Are Exposing The “Early Signs” They Totally Overlooked

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“Projection. She started to be really aware of any time I was having a text conversation with someone she didn’t know, started asking me where I was going more often, things like that. Eventually turned into her accusing me of hiding parts of my life from her. It was very frustrating because I was hiding nothing and had not changed my behavior at all from the past 15 years. I never would have believed it if I hadn’t gone to a therapist who asked me if these things were happening before I even had a chance to point it out. I’d heard of projection before, but I didn’t know it was a normal thing that sane people do. My ex sucks, and she was in a bad place mentally, but she’s not an insane or crazy person.”

–Mysterious-Web-8788

“She accused me of cheating. Randomly, no evidence, no rationale. I was absolutely perplexed. The lesson learned was if your partner ever accuses you, the chances of them actually doing the cheating skyrocket. I wish I knew that — I’d have dumped her on the spot — unfortunately I rationalised that she had trust issues from previous relationships and accepted that I had to help her heal.”

–Low_Union_7178