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‘I Ghosted My Friend After She Asked To Split Her Birthday Bill. Was I Unfair?’


A 2024 Thortful report found that 71% of cash-strapped Brits have skipped a friend’s birthday party because they simply can’t afford it. 

And with the cozzie livs showing absolutely no signs of relenting in 2025, it doesn’t seem like the trend will reverse any time soon. 

Which makes Redditor u/Quick_Aioli6466′s recent post to r/AITAH (Am I The Asshole Here) seem even more unfair. 

The 30-year-old poster said she felt blindsided by her friend’s seemingly self-serving (and misleading) birthday party payment plan.

So, we spoke to Dr Pamela Walters, a consultant psychiatrist, about what’s fair to ask of your guests financially.

Amy Glover

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