19 Women Are Sharing Their Ex’s “Red Flags” They Only Noticed After Breaking Up

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“When I asked him about religion on the first date, he said he was figuring out what it looked like for him since he grew up Christian and in the South, but he downplayed it like he didn’t practice (I have never been to church and don’t plan to raise my kids in that environment, which I told him).”

“We broke up six months later, and he went DEEP into his feelings about Jesus and told everyone he would never date someone who doesn’t know the love of Jesus, etc. It felt like he had put on a mask, so I’d give him a shot. Heavily religious was a dealbreaker for me. 

Now that I look back on it, and after doing a deep dive into his social media after breaking up, he was VERY religious. It’s a red flag to downplay something you’re passionate about, and also a red flag that he stopped practicing and going to church for six months, when he was very religious.”

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