17 People Are Calling Out The “Red Flag” Things That People Believe Are Completely Okay To Do

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“Someone who never gets angry or disagrees. While it seems pleasant, it often means they’re suppressing emotions to avoid conflict, manipulate perceptions, or hide resentment.”

—PaulaAllen1

“Hey there, someone here who never gets angry and rarely disagrees. Dunno if it helps understand why some people do this, but here’s my perspective:

I can’t identify emotions, so they don’t come naturally as responses. A lot of the time, I have to try and do detective work to figure out what I’m feeling or what I should be feeling.

Another thing is that I’ve never seen a disagreement end well. The only experience I have is of them spiralling and turning into a poo flinging contest and people getting hurt. I see no cognitive or practical use for engaging in disagreements, and especially not arguments. I am always looking to avoid conflict, but I don’t hold resentment because that’s my choice to avoid them.”

—galsfromthedwarf